Deputy Director of Criminal Investigation Department in Bukit Aman, Datuk Acrll Sani Abdullah Sani, has stated that the total number of teen missing since January 2004 to May this year, 4237, or 67.5 percent had gone home. However, the remaining total of 2033 Lago could not be detected, and this is very worrying because they feared social problems involved, raped, assaulted or found dead.
Adolescents are a man, aged 12 to 21 years the environment will play a critical nature through an impassioned and assume all the action right, about listening to the advice of others, and like to try something new. In scaling this age group is considered his actions were correct and no one should be prohibited. Teenage life today is full of challenges to progress and modernity so that they now live in freedom. Freedom of teenagers is now no longer confined to the prevailing variety of social problems among the so-called youth.
Teens that run away from home are a teenager who left home without the consent of the parents go to a place not usually known by his family. The words of a more mature and experienced, parents, teachers, relatives or ignored. They are not afraid to leave home because a lot of places that can be occupied as the home of friends or work THEY believed employers would provide shelter. With the confidence that all is not all true, they would feel safe living away from home. Loose on the grounds that they do not feel guilty leaving the house, memgewakan parents, and thus waive future. They do not mind whether to cry or mourn mother, my father was disappointed and angry. Importantly, they are free.
There are many causes that led to the problem. Among them are affected rakansebaya. It can be divided into two equal flow iatu friends or boyfriends. Most influenced by friend’s lelaki.merekamerka banned, they will decide to run away from home. Friends leleki they are well positioned in terms of physical, stylish branded clothing, interesting and car berketampilan mewah.pemuda budinya we do not know, typically adolescent capture beautiful words, apart from giving gifts. Adolescent girls who have never enjoyed the luxury to be easily trapped denagn persuasion persuasion can be thrilling sense of pliers. They promised an interesting job and a lucrative salary, the opportunity to travel and live in mansions.
The second factor was a peer of the same stream. Most students come from ending the behavior-their close friend. Insistence and support of peers also play an important role in the case of the children ran away from home. They are easier to imitate, shipped and friends affected denagn sebaya.remaja more tired to continue their education because of the inability of the brain receive a lesson, because they often do not understand the teacher and sometimes won’t shame if scolded, they act to play truant. If they are skipping school to spend time with other friends. Even their peers to fill a large part of their lives. In this situation, they are willing to do anything for the sake of their friends and family left solely to meet the requirements of partners. If they like berfiya peer-loving but also they are quite easy to step out with her without thinking of the good and bad. Friends who often came home late to influence others to also come home late.
Likewise, if her best friend runs away from home they will follow. Thus, they will feel good and no longer want to go home to their parents. There are also a handful of those daridapa start working and start living barudengan self-employed. The advice given by their peers are not mature and rational when they are teenager’s maluahkan problem. This occurs because the peer itself is not mature enough and experienced in dealing with current problems kehidupa this challenging. Indeed, friends who also write advice that will lead the youth to take action to run away from home. The most frustrating when there are girls involved with the symptoms of running away from home.
In addition, teenage runaways occur due keretakkan home built a long time. When there pertingkahan and fights between parents cause their children to feel bored. Hostilities between parents who divorce also brings are the main cause of cases of runaway’s ramaja. If the parent ignores the responsibility for keeping their children will lead the children will feel themselves isolated.
In addition, adolescents who run away from home often pressure parents to use the grounds as the main cause of them does this heinous act. Parental pressure is associated with the failure of parents to understand the personal needs of adolescents are so urgent. Parents often blame the child or are not appropriate to give love to the youth. In addition, parents are too busy pursuing material wealth and luxury. Consequently, interaction and communication among family became estranged and neglected children. As a result, children who are addicted to love experiencing frustrations and stress. If this situation continues, the children began to hate their parents and families, and often acts left their families trying to find entertainment and relaxation outdoors. If the action away from home can give you peace of animal happiness in them so they could do. This group is willing to do anything to achieve kabahagian in their lives. Thus, the failure of parents to play their role as the key driver escaped adolescence.
Some families have a household size that is too small. This cause the house they were too narrow. Sometimes the boys had to sleep in the living room. Other rooms occupied by the parents and daughter. Eventually boredom arises in their hearts. They will find another home can provide comfort to them. Finally, if there are colleagues who took the action away from home for stay at home more comfortable but they will follow.
This problem is also associated with adolescents' personality itself. Many teenagers who do not have a strong and positive attitude when faced with a problem that hit them. Teenagers are so easily felt or feel sensitive when reprimanded by their parents so willing to flee. Most teenagers today do not have endurance. In fact, they have emotions yanh fragile. Care is not comprehensive adolescent personality menyebabkab not so sound and stable. They are easily influenced and not able to assess a keadaan.mereka tudak also can handle rintagan-resistance in their lives. Hence they often acted in haste in the face of problems and one of the main solutions is to run away from home. Clearly, this situation proves that this problem is also determined by the attitude of the youth of this age should be more robust and resilient.
Other causes of this phenomenon are the lack of religious beliefs among the people involved. Education and religion are so barren among teenagers also cause them so vulnerable to escape from the bladder. For this reason, despite only seven years old child has been taught to be religious and read the Quran. But because parents are busy with careers and have difficulty menghantat and took the child in school. Actually, religion is studied, and if practiced in the liver and can be a fortress seseornag dijiwa from doing something bad. Religion plays an important role in educating and teaching the human person is to be useful. Religion, particularly Islam, forbids its followers to reject and abandon their parents arbitrary.
Instead one is to ignore the teachings of Islam make them more vulnerable to outside influences that are stuck to the problem of runaways. Some parents who have no religious beliefs fail to teach children to obey their religious teachings. What is happening now, never mind about religious education, parents are not setting a good example to their children. Parents should ensure children prayed and fasted for example, it would not be followed if the child if the mother or the father who did it. Here, parents should come forward and play a role as a good example for their children. Busy parents who are too busy chasing money and luxuries of life is certainly no time to mebina membentuksahsiah and self-esteem and children who need care and love. That is why they are so easy to leave their families when facing problems.
In addition, the influences of mass media also play an important role. Mass media like television, newspapers, and magazines often publish news from the West to show the youth the damaged character. If not the news from the west, the display of local artists who dress manjolok enough points menbuatkan pembacayang of young people think about negative things yamh. Diburukan situation again with the view of the internet. There was a wide view of information and anything else you want to achieve just press the button on the keyboard. For the young lovers from the West to live together without marriage is not an error. Even the act of running away from home, especially the western artist also is common. Teenagers who like to emulate would do things that they're watching television without any doubt. Ramaja also unable to distinguish reality and lakonanyang different. Because readable materials always show the negative elements are not aware of all the action is often in conflict with local cultural values. Thus, the mass media also factors that can cause teenagers desire to run away from home.
In addition, community attitudes also lead to teenage runaways. If used, especially when the children of virgin village community disorderly behavior will be reprimanded or make a complaint directly to their parents. Now this may no longer be said, not only in big towns, villages and even in villages. This stems from a busy career to concentrate on the problem so next door neighbor who knows nothing. Negative attitudes seem to provide a space for teenagers to do what felt right, but actually in contravention of the value of life.
These symptoms can be addressed if all parties take the initiative in earnest. Among them are the parents should ensure their children's association for melanpaui no bounds. If their children's friends are bercuriga, wise parents should advise their children to keep away from these peers.
In addition, parents should also improve the understanding of religious practices. This is because when the whole family loyal to the religious order, they are afraid to make mistakes and crimes. It is unlawful for any treatment that would be a sin religion. Thus, children who are educated in religious doctrine would be menhindari themselves from such an act.
The authorities, especially the police may arrest the youth who ran away from home. If there are parents who membuata dibalai police complaint. They should finish and look for information to address this problem I immediately. Action delay will increase the standoff to solve this problem. The action felt caught and sentenced to solve this problem well.
Therefore, the symptoms of teenage runaways can be contained if all parties play their respective roles. The attitude of blaming others deemed a failure menanganimasalah orng this. With this problem solved ini9, gajala will not be widespread among teens today.
This crisis is also associated with adolescents' personality itself. Many teenagers who do not have a strong and positive attitude when faced with an m Asalah that hit them. Teenagers are so easily felt or feel sensitive when reprimanded by their parents to flee. Clearly, this situation proves that this problem is also determined by the attitude of adolescents of this age should be more robust and resilient.
For my opinion on this issue, today's teens need to think before they do something like run away from home. And also frustrating for the parents who sacrificed much to raise us. As a mother and teacher, this phenomenon is very horrifying. Various operations and methods have been done but the problem is. We are able to monitor the government's plans huburan widespread on television, especially Astro. Promiscuity, excessive entertainment dijiwa grown children are still small, the freedom to choose to make children think checkers is so brave enough to do something unexpected. I strongly disagree on some television show hosted by seorng selebiriti known, although there is also a plus to build a brave soul to a child, but if the minor has been accustomed to the character of adults, excessive entertainment. Cbayangkan when they set foot into middle school. Ending first-come, if at large a little worried they will not consult their parents or teachers because they feel they are mature thinking.
In addition, if you do not insist on certain television is controlled by the children in primary schools to watch their favorite programs. In recent years, many published reports about the involvement of adolescent symptoms penangihan drugs, rape, theft, school gangsters, illegal racing, hang out and ran away from home. Just as youth involvement in the murder of school friends and a baby menbuan result of illegal connection. In a troubled teenager looking for the base trees iti, a fact we must menerim teens today face various risks, such as rape, unlucky, suicide, and many more.
According to parents who pay scant regard to their children lead their children into the wild. In fact, in the busy parents to focus on careers, children are given less attention. If this becomes the basis of teenage runaways, of course, thousands of other teenagers to leave home every day right. It can be said for the average parent now concentrates on his career so children feel neglected. If only reason parents are not providing enough attention, not because the child wants to run away from home. Children know their parents work for a living and provide the best for their future.
Outside world and the strong attraction of the influence of western culture has become the source of this problem. Youth of today are often influenced by the ideas of freedom and indivilualistik. Even a fully independent lifestyle kesoronokan become an idol for many teenagers. When their parents try to inculcate-Niali nialai good and admirable, the children assume their parents try to restrain their freedom. jikan this situation persists, the children no longer hesitate to leave their rumahm. They ran away from home because there are factors outside the home that has been available for us.
Teenagers hope the nation and country. Family became the most important platform in the shape adolescent personality. Thus, the social shortcomings, particularly in proper teen kalngan referred to the family and social system as a whole.
In conclusion, gajala teens ran from the house was to be arrested immediately for the future of our youth are increasingly dim world of modernity swallowed. All parties, especially the community must play a role in addressing this problem tersandiri. Maybe we should blame them before we blame the teenager in this case.
According to one study there are several reasons teenagers run away from home. Among them are:
• The relationship of husband and wife are not thinking about parenthood
• Use language that is not correct
• Less gentle with children
• Fiscal errors children
• Frequent mistakes nag kids
• The same advice received by the children
• There is communication gap between parents and children
• No time with children jokes
• Default promise to children
• Ignoring hygiene place and personal appearance
• No guidance eating and drinking etiquette
• Allowing the children of non-halal food
• No diversification meals for children
Adolescents are a man, aged 12 to 21 years the environment will play a critical nature through an impassioned and assume all the action right, about listening to the advice of others, and like to try something new. In scaling this age group is considered his actions were correct and no one should be prohibited. Teenage life today is full of challenges to progress and modernity so that they now live in freedom. Freedom of teenagers is now no longer confined to the prevailing variety of social problems among the so-called youth.
Teens that run away from home are a teenager who left home without the consent of the parents go to a place not usually known by his family. The words of a more mature and experienced, parents, teachers, relatives or ignored. They are not afraid to leave home because a lot of places that can be occupied as the home of friends or work THEY believed employers would provide shelter. With the confidence that all is not all true, they would feel safe living away from home. Loose on the grounds that they do not feel guilty leaving the house, memgewakan parents, and thus waive future. They do not mind whether to cry or mourn mother, my father was disappointed and angry. Importantly, they are free.
There are many causes that led to the problem. Among them are affected rakansebaya. It can be divided into two equal flow iatu friends or boyfriends. Most influenced by friend’s lelaki.merekamerka banned, they will decide to run away from home. Friends leleki they are well positioned in terms of physical, stylish branded clothing, interesting and car berketampilan mewah.pemuda budinya we do not know, typically adolescent capture beautiful words, apart from giving gifts. Adolescent girls who have never enjoyed the luxury to be easily trapped denagn persuasion persuasion can be thrilling sense of pliers. They promised an interesting job and a lucrative salary, the opportunity to travel and live in mansions.
The second factor was a peer of the same stream. Most students come from ending the behavior-their close friend. Insistence and support of peers also play an important role in the case of the children ran away from home. They are easier to imitate, shipped and friends affected denagn sebaya.remaja more tired to continue their education because of the inability of the brain receive a lesson, because they often do not understand the teacher and sometimes won’t shame if scolded, they act to play truant. If they are skipping school to spend time with other friends. Even their peers to fill a large part of their lives. In this situation, they are willing to do anything for the sake of their friends and family left solely to meet the requirements of partners. If they like berfiya peer-loving but also they are quite easy to step out with her without thinking of the good and bad. Friends who often came home late to influence others to also come home late.
Likewise, if her best friend runs away from home they will follow. Thus, they will feel good and no longer want to go home to their parents. There are also a handful of those daridapa start working and start living barudengan self-employed. The advice given by their peers are not mature and rational when they are teenager’s maluahkan problem. This occurs because the peer itself is not mature enough and experienced in dealing with current problems kehidupa this challenging. Indeed, friends who also write advice that will lead the youth to take action to run away from home. The most frustrating when there are girls involved with the symptoms of running away from home.
In addition, teenage runaways occur due keretakkan home built a long time. When there pertingkahan and fights between parents cause their children to feel bored. Hostilities between parents who divorce also brings are the main cause of cases of runaway’s ramaja. If the parent ignores the responsibility for keeping their children will lead the children will feel themselves isolated.
In addition, adolescents who run away from home often pressure parents to use the grounds as the main cause of them does this heinous act. Parental pressure is associated with the failure of parents to understand the personal needs of adolescents are so urgent. Parents often blame the child or are not appropriate to give love to the youth. In addition, parents are too busy pursuing material wealth and luxury. Consequently, interaction and communication among family became estranged and neglected children. As a result, children who are addicted to love experiencing frustrations and stress. If this situation continues, the children began to hate their parents and families, and often acts left their families trying to find entertainment and relaxation outdoors. If the action away from home can give you peace of animal happiness in them so they could do. This group is willing to do anything to achieve kabahagian in their lives. Thus, the failure of parents to play their role as the key driver escaped adolescence.
Some families have a household size that is too small. This cause the house they were too narrow. Sometimes the boys had to sleep in the living room. Other rooms occupied by the parents and daughter. Eventually boredom arises in their hearts. They will find another home can provide comfort to them. Finally, if there are colleagues who took the action away from home for stay at home more comfortable but they will follow.
This problem is also associated with adolescents' personality itself. Many teenagers who do not have a strong and positive attitude when faced with a problem that hit them. Teenagers are so easily felt or feel sensitive when reprimanded by their parents so willing to flee. Most teenagers today do not have endurance. In fact, they have emotions yanh fragile. Care is not comprehensive adolescent personality menyebabkab not so sound and stable. They are easily influenced and not able to assess a keadaan.mereka tudak also can handle rintagan-resistance in their lives. Hence they often acted in haste in the face of problems and one of the main solutions is to run away from home. Clearly, this situation proves that this problem is also determined by the attitude of the youth of this age should be more robust and resilient.
Other causes of this phenomenon are the lack of religious beliefs among the people involved. Education and religion are so barren among teenagers also cause them so vulnerable to escape from the bladder. For this reason, despite only seven years old child has been taught to be religious and read the Quran. But because parents are busy with careers and have difficulty menghantat and took the child in school. Actually, religion is studied, and if practiced in the liver and can be a fortress seseornag dijiwa from doing something bad. Religion plays an important role in educating and teaching the human person is to be useful. Religion, particularly Islam, forbids its followers to reject and abandon their parents arbitrary.
Instead one is to ignore the teachings of Islam make them more vulnerable to outside influences that are stuck to the problem of runaways. Some parents who have no religious beliefs fail to teach children to obey their religious teachings. What is happening now, never mind about religious education, parents are not setting a good example to their children. Parents should ensure children prayed and fasted for example, it would not be followed if the child if the mother or the father who did it. Here, parents should come forward and play a role as a good example for their children. Busy parents who are too busy chasing money and luxuries of life is certainly no time to mebina membentuksahsiah and self-esteem and children who need care and love. That is why they are so easy to leave their families when facing problems.
In addition, the influences of mass media also play an important role. Mass media like television, newspapers, and magazines often publish news from the West to show the youth the damaged character. If not the news from the west, the display of local artists who dress manjolok enough points menbuatkan pembacayang of young people think about negative things yamh. Diburukan situation again with the view of the internet. There was a wide view of information and anything else you want to achieve just press the button on the keyboard. For the young lovers from the West to live together without marriage is not an error. Even the act of running away from home, especially the western artist also is common. Teenagers who like to emulate would do things that they're watching television without any doubt. Ramaja also unable to distinguish reality and lakonanyang different. Because readable materials always show the negative elements are not aware of all the action is often in conflict with local cultural values. Thus, the mass media also factors that can cause teenagers desire to run away from home.
In addition, community attitudes also lead to teenage runaways. If used, especially when the children of virgin village community disorderly behavior will be reprimanded or make a complaint directly to their parents. Now this may no longer be said, not only in big towns, villages and even in villages. This stems from a busy career to concentrate on the problem so next door neighbor who knows nothing. Negative attitudes seem to provide a space for teenagers to do what felt right, but actually in contravention of the value of life.
These symptoms can be addressed if all parties take the initiative in earnest. Among them are the parents should ensure their children's association for melanpaui no bounds. If their children's friends are bercuriga, wise parents should advise their children to keep away from these peers.
In addition, parents should also improve the understanding of religious practices. This is because when the whole family loyal to the religious order, they are afraid to make mistakes and crimes. It is unlawful for any treatment that would be a sin religion. Thus, children who are educated in religious doctrine would be menhindari themselves from such an act.
The authorities, especially the police may arrest the youth who ran away from home. If there are parents who membuata dibalai police complaint. They should finish and look for information to address this problem I immediately. Action delay will increase the standoff to solve this problem. The action felt caught and sentenced to solve this problem well.
Therefore, the symptoms of teenage runaways can be contained if all parties play their respective roles. The attitude of blaming others deemed a failure menanganimasalah orng this. With this problem solved ini9, gajala will not be widespread among teens today.
This crisis is also associated with adolescents' personality itself. Many teenagers who do not have a strong and positive attitude when faced with an m Asalah that hit them. Teenagers are so easily felt or feel sensitive when reprimanded by their parents to flee. Clearly, this situation proves that this problem is also determined by the attitude of adolescents of this age should be more robust and resilient.
For my opinion on this issue, today's teens need to think before they do something like run away from home. And also frustrating for the parents who sacrificed much to raise us. As a mother and teacher, this phenomenon is very horrifying. Various operations and methods have been done but the problem is. We are able to monitor the government's plans huburan widespread on television, especially Astro. Promiscuity, excessive entertainment dijiwa grown children are still small, the freedom to choose to make children think checkers is so brave enough to do something unexpected. I strongly disagree on some television show hosted by seorng selebiriti known, although there is also a plus to build a brave soul to a child, but if the minor has been accustomed to the character of adults, excessive entertainment. Cbayangkan when they set foot into middle school. Ending first-come, if at large a little worried they will not consult their parents or teachers because they feel they are mature thinking.
In addition, if you do not insist on certain television is controlled by the children in primary schools to watch their favorite programs. In recent years, many published reports about the involvement of adolescent symptoms penangihan drugs, rape, theft, school gangsters, illegal racing, hang out and ran away from home. Just as youth involvement in the murder of school friends and a baby menbuan result of illegal connection. In a troubled teenager looking for the base trees iti, a fact we must menerim teens today face various risks, such as rape, unlucky, suicide, and many more.
According to parents who pay scant regard to their children lead their children into the wild. In fact, in the busy parents to focus on careers, children are given less attention. If this becomes the basis of teenage runaways, of course, thousands of other teenagers to leave home every day right. It can be said for the average parent now concentrates on his career so children feel neglected. If only reason parents are not providing enough attention, not because the child wants to run away from home. Children know their parents work for a living and provide the best for their future.
Outside world and the strong attraction of the influence of western culture has become the source of this problem. Youth of today are often influenced by the ideas of freedom and indivilualistik. Even a fully independent lifestyle kesoronokan become an idol for many teenagers. When their parents try to inculcate-Niali nialai good and admirable, the children assume their parents try to restrain their freedom. jikan this situation persists, the children no longer hesitate to leave their rumahm. They ran away from home because there are factors outside the home that has been available for us.
Teenagers hope the nation and country. Family became the most important platform in the shape adolescent personality. Thus, the social shortcomings, particularly in proper teen kalngan referred to the family and social system as a whole.
In conclusion, gajala teens ran from the house was to be arrested immediately for the future of our youth are increasingly dim world of modernity swallowed. All parties, especially the community must play a role in addressing this problem tersandiri. Maybe we should blame them before we blame the teenager in this case.
According to one study there are several reasons teenagers run away from home. Among them are:
• The relationship of husband and wife are not thinking about parenthood
• Use language that is not correct
• Less gentle with children
• Fiscal errors children
• Frequent mistakes nag kids
• The same advice received by the children
• There is communication gap between parents and children
• No time with children jokes
• Default promise to children
• Ignoring hygiene place and personal appearance
• No guidance eating and drinking etiquette
• Allowing the children of non-halal food
• No diversification meals for children
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